I think my H is staying for the 3 boys also (3 boys under age of 7). Hard to GAL w/ that Anyway, we went through a financial crisis last week & he was over the edge mad and I felt also that he was blaming it on me. I just patiently worked everything through w/ him and never got mad or upset.
I know what you mean about H never being happy w/ you again. I feel the same way -- will he ever truly love me again - he's said so many times "I don't love you like that anymore." He's truly convinced himself of that!
However, what is just as scary is that sometimes I wonder if one of these days I'm going to start really, really disliking him too!!
Oh and I always said that too -- we never argue -- however, I think that's because we had absolutely no communication. I think it's ok to argue sometimes as long as you work it all out.
A day at a time is all we can do!!!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Anyway, we went through a financial crisis last week & he was over the edge mad and I felt also that he was blaming it on me. I just patiently worked everything through w/ him and never got mad or upset. 