Stubborn, I meant your S's guilt. She knows that HER action to go outside your R has put her family in jeopardy (that's a game show too!) That is a big load to carry! So, human nature is that we offload it, we rationalize it. You know, "I'm not the one whose to blame here, Stubborn is the one who chose to end it" blah blah blah. Bottom line is that all her BS is meaningless, what matters is how much you can take and remain a healthy, functioning person and loving parent to your child. It's your call. Certainly, one year is a long time (as I would also know!), you've paid your dues. You do what is right for you and your child. Take your time, there's no overdue fine if you overstay your year!!!
