need a little encouragement

[kissak]

Thanks, it's nice to know that someone understands me. I am trying so hard to patient. I am just so fearful that he will not ever be happy with me again. We never argue or have any conflicts. I always ask him how is day was. I try to even be the submissive wife. Today he called me upset about a money issue that I really had nothing to do with about a bill, and I asked if he was upset or mad at me and he said no, then I asked again and he said, "I don't know". I don't know what is going on with him today. I know that he is mainly trying to work on our marriage for our 2 children. He couldn't stand being away from them. I do see him doing things for me that he didn't always do before. He always asks if there is anything I need him to do for me before he decides to do something for himself. He will even do laundry or dishes now. Housework was an issue when he left. He said I couldn't keep it done, but I told him I need help because I run my own business and I can't do it all. I think he realizes that now and he tries to help. He promised me when we got back together that he would always let me know when something was bothering him about us, so I am holding on to that. I do want my marriage to work.