Thanks guys - I figured that was the answer I would get but just needed some reassurance I guess. And, yes, COG I agree pot is probably less a problem than alcohol and I'm not concerned about the alcohol because he does watch that because of the AD he's taking. I just don't know what affect the pot would have on the AD, if any (my guess it wouldn't)
As for losing his job, that really isn't an issue with him. The only reason he had to have a drug test to begin with is he runs to the States (from Canada) and it is a requirement of the USA not Canada, that he have it. If he lost his job, he would say "no problem" there are lots of others out there and get one that didn't run into the States, so that really isn't that much of a deterent for him
But, I will bite my tongue and just hope he has more maturity than I think he does (and that he has shown lately). Ok, now to busy myself and not think about it
My latest chant: I am not his mummy, I am not his mummy, I am not his mummy
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)