Is there anyway I can approach the subject without sounding like I am trying to control his life?
Nope! He's a big boy and does'nt need his mommy telling him what to do. Let the man go get wild with the boys and don't worry about him. We men need a little risk, adventure, and kick boxing once in awhile. The only thing you could offer, if anything, is to let him know you want him to go have a good time, and you would not hesitate to come pick him up if he decides to indulge himself.
Personally, I think alchohol is FAR more dangerous than pot. Now I'm not saying it's OK, I'm just saying that maybe you could try to keep things in perspective here. You married a man who's wild at heart. He craves adventure, danger, and excitement. Don't try to tame him, just learn to love the MAN.
God Bless,
COG
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