All WAS say the same sh(* - they were never happy, no longer love you - don't they deserve to be happy blah blah blah.
My H really tried to convince me we were through-- for the last 8 mos in fact. Read my sitch and have some faith in the DB'ing it can work. Ultimately YOU become a better person with or without her. There is no convincing her right now - she is going to do the opposite of what you say...trust me I have learned this the hard way. It has taken me 8 mos of pure DB'ing to finally put the brakes on the Divorce train. Had I given up when H wanted me to we would be D by now - scary thought since we are now truly reconcilling!!!!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
