You sound fantastic, and I'm glad your H is reponding to you. It's awesome, nice work!
I don't know that I would be as patient as you if my W were staying out till 3:00 am. That's really pushing the threshold of decency. Maybe you ought to let him know that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. If it's OK for him to stay out that late, then you should have the SAME opportunity.
Otherwise, you just sound terrific. I'm very happy for you!
God Bless,
COG
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