DR says A lasts 6 months. True???

[still hoping]

Ophelia:
OMG, my H's sitch is the same as yours. I don't think he's ever forgiven his father for his A(s) either. Never even wants to talk about it. And now he has become him, in so many ways, it's truly unbelievable.
I so wish that he would just open his eyes and see that he's following in his father's exact same footsteps. But how do we get them to do that? Honestly, I don't think he even knows what he's doing. This is all he knows. I've been so tempted to say to him, jokingly even, that he's becoming his father, but I think that he either wouldn't hear me or it would just make matters worse. Guess he has to figure it out for himself.

Thanks for the tip on how to link a thread! Actually decided not to link my original, but will probably need that info in the future.