hey there, stay strong, your W has lost her marbles to MLC and depression and prob doesn't even like herself right now. The girls are very luck to have you now, you are the only one they can count on, so chin up, you can go through this. Get off her emotional rollercoaster, do not feed of every things she says, she is clearly of no sound mind right now, her emotions are talking for her. She is believing every negative that pops into her mind and believes that becuase she feels it it must be true.
Shield the girls from her, shield yourself from her emotional whirlwind. You go to florida and have a great time with your mom and kids.
Your w need major therapy, it is NOT you, ok? your w is questioning everything right now and nothing is the right answer right now (come one, stay come to take care of dogs?? what an excuse!) ========= but i feel like I can't control it, so I am going to stop trying. I just need to vent ========= YES and yes, the only person you can control is YOU, and that's the way it should always be. You can't holster all the responsibility, each of us is responsible for our own happiness. That burden isnt' yours, she has to find herself on her own. Vent and complain here, that's what this board is for.
You arent' alone, God is always with you, specially now. It doesnt' seem like it, but sometimes it takes a blow this big for us to find Him again.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
