Funny you should ask about the first marriage!! I was told they were unhappy for about 4 years before they seperated. I also found out H had an A before his first wife got pregnant with their second son...I guess H ended it.... In hindsight, I really hope I was not an A. When I met H he was supposedly going through D and living with his mother. We were very casual for a year b/c I wasn't sure I was ready to take on children and an XW when I wa only 25. I remember his D being final and me finally meeting the kids about 1 1/2 years after we started dating. I really think this is the same type of thing H is doing again. This time he is much worse...really flaunting OW and being rotten to me!! The $$ is the worse right now...he has new clothes etc...I am struggling to grocery shop! I should be back in L's office this week to sign my counter claim..UGH...I think H is going to be very surprised that he can have our car...I certainly do not need a 400$ a month car payment!! I did tell H he should be ashamed of himself with everything in papers...he did admit they were very strong. H can't think for himself....this is going to suck!! I have never been inside a courtroom in my life!
