I can't blame you at all. DBing is great but sometimes pressure builds up which ends up in an explosion. Your H makes me angry that he is trying to put this back on you for sabotaging good feeling. He started the whole sabotage with the A. I HATE how they try to reverse things and make us the reason for the problems. I hope during IC the C opens his eyes to how much damage he caused all by himself.
I wish I could help you with the comment he made, who knows what he meant. He was probably just saying things in the heat of the moment.