I need to just keep my mouth shut! I completely lost it last night and accused, cried, and begged. All this after a few weeks of stellar DB'ing (I only cried here). I just fell off the wagon because H was on the phone w/OW and I am soooo tired of it. In response to my breakdown, H accused ME of sabotaging all of the good feelings that we were building up. We got in a HUGE fight.
I am still trying to control the situation w/OW and I can't win there. In the end, I told H that I really don't have any right at this point to demand to know who he is talking to and when. I KNOW he is still having the A. It's a fact until he tells me otherwise. His comment: "won't it be nice to get to the point where it's not an issue any longer". Ummm.. YES!!! H says he's working on it even though it may not seem like it. I have NO IDEA what he means!
DB'ing (I only cried here). I just fell off the wagon because H was on the phone w/OW and I am soooo tired of it. In response to my breakdown, H accused ME of sabotaging all of the good feelings that we were building up. We got in a HUGE fight. 
