Starting to really piece it back together

[Heartbroken]

Heywyre - now I feel bad posting my good news ;(

This is a hard place to be I want my story to be a positive to help encourage other DB'ers to keep the good fight going. At they same time I don't want to seem insensitive to those who are still struggling with their spouse and the OP...

H and I still have a long way to go. We know what the issues were/are and we still need to work at them. H also has to get over Ow completely. H will also have to deal with Ow's ex - who was H's friend as well (not as close as Ow and I were but they were friends due to us two wives being such good friends). Day by day and keep the Baby Step motto playing in my head...