Thank you for the advice. After I kinda got over being mad I usually handle everything anyway. I talked with my boys and we will handle the problem this Monday morning. MY H still hadn't called me or the boys last night or this morning. I really believe he is going thru a MLC in full form ..He is 51.
I will try and explain our situtation more tonite so you can get the whole story.
Yes, I do shoulder most of the responsibilty of our ranching business. It started 5 years ago when my H took a job as an enviro inspector. It paid really well but it keeps him from home a lot. So most of our responsility is mine we are in a partnership with his brother who has a different business also and his dad who helps me (but it we have a few disagreements on things too.) It is harder now that I work full time because when this job came along I thought I should take it incase we did get a divorce. My boys are good to help but they are in college so they come when they can.
Well I have to get ready to go to work. When you have been with someone for 27 years its pretty tough to move forward but I have made great progress.
