If you let them bring it out, that is the best option. At least for me. I have read this and heard it confirmed somewhere else, I believe 40/60 forum. THe book I believe I am refering to is, "If the one you love wants to leave". Got it off New Life Ministries. Helped me form many of my beiefs, and then when I found DB it all fell into place. Look under "SCouts Basics" on fortysixty.org I think it can go both ways. For the majority, it will make it like the ball and chain marriage that they left. The day to day reality. Hard to keep a fantasy going, don't ya think?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
