Its over...she filed part 2

[Kim07]

SR,,,

Can you please tell me what your WAW does for a living??

Thanks, Kim

[ImprovedRomeo]

Kim, I'd rather not give too much away on a public forum, however, email me at 'mtumse at aol.com' if you'd like to know. Do you think you might know her?

[Kim07]

SR,,Hi, understandable,,I did just e-mail you,,thanks so much!

:)Kim

[ImprovedRomeo]

Kim, I replied to you.

So W and I had a pretty decent time, we spent several hours in the morning together with D to go see the easter bunny, then we had dinner later in the evening and had jokes and laughs...mostly D related.

W's b.day is coming up, I'm trying to figure out what to get her if anything. On the one hand I feel she doesn't deserve anything from me for what she's doing but on the other hand she deserves a gift as a mother of my D. Suggestions?

[catfan]

SR, I recently went through the whole gift thing, birthday, anniversary and valentine's day. I kept it simple with a humorous non affectionate card and simple nonpersonal gifts, some chocolates she likes, an iTunes gift card and a gift card for a manicure.

If you do anything don't do anything that is personal in any way, no jewelry, lingerie, perfume, etc.

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks catfan. I was going to get her a couple of geeky things a shirt and panties that say '403 Forbidden' - 403 is the HTTP error code when you go to a URL that you don't have permissions to LOL

OK I won't get those...iTunes sounds better.

I just noticed your signature, it's changed a bit

[catfan]

Yes it has changed a bit but there's all of the sudden a lot of things apparently happening here. Where it goes I have no idea just faith that God is taking us in the right direction. That is the right direction according to God.

I won't try to summarize here just too much to tell. So go check my latest thread, really the last page or so, Catfan's latest plot twists.

[ImprovedRomeo]

she's out and about whenever i call her with all kinds of background noise, guys mostly and it's making my blood boil and i can't seem to let the feelings go.

[OldFool]

She's out and about whenever I call her with all kinds of background noise, guys mostly and it's making my blood boil and I can't seem to let the feelings go.

It's natural to be angry and hurt...so don't torture yourself unless it's absolutely necessary. First, don't call unless you really (really!) need to. Second, don't call her cell unless you really (really!) have something you must tell/ask her right now. Third, when the other two are not a factor, call her home phone or send an e-mail. You are rubbing your own nose in this. Stop doing it.

[ImprovedRomeo]

I only call so D can talk to her before going to bed. I don't even typically talk to her other than saying bye and then hanging up since D's too little to hang up the phone by herself.

I signed the divorce paperwork yesterday and yet I act/feel like she's still my wife - I don't know how to not feel that way.