I am sorry your H is such an ass, but it is typical MLC stuff. Don't believe much of what he is saying, he is insane right now. He may or may not follow through with the divorce.
Stay calm, cool, and confident. I know it is hard, but you can do this. Remember, H is a child right now, and is afraid and in deep pain. He wants to drag you down in his pit of hell. Focus on your children, talk to them and love them.
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"
