I was just setting up a bill payment and thought I'd quick jump on (it's bed-time so not for long) and saw your post of woe and just had to post back. About what you said: . . . OR, is it remotely possible that he had to change the e-mail and wanted you to have it b/c it's a means of contact between you but he just didn't want to make a big deal about it and have you read something hopeful into that?? I mean hello, why does everything have to mean something bad? You guys still have contact and no one's filed for D yet, doesn't that mean anything?
In real life of course it is absolutely POINTLESS to try to get inside his tiny little brain and analyze why he does anything. For all you know he did this w/o a thought, just like any guy would -- "Doo dee doo, oh yeah, gotta send out my new e-mail address to everyone in my address book" kind of thing -- he might just regard this as "housekeeping" and might not have attached any significance to it -- and here you are putting yourself into a tailspin over it. Yeah it could be an intentionally cold "message" to you but frankly I doubt it and DEFINITELY it's not worth all the analysis! So let's stop thinking about this and get back to once's Life Already in Progress. What'd ya do this weekend? If nothing, what're ya gonna do this week that's fun, eh?
