Backslide today....more like landslide!!

[Holly06]

I have a friend who is newly divorce. She is sticking to the visitation schedule that the county set up. She arranged to go on spring break with me because she did not want to be home alone without her son, as he is scheduled to be with his dad.
She informed him of the trip and he got mad/jealous, thinks I am probably the other man. (NO!!!!!!) He proceeded to say, listen B, you know I can not take C for an entire week.........
she said that is the schedule. Sorry, you have him.
In the end it is the fairest thing, to stick to the schedule.
He is now taking him, and I think/hope he is happy about it.

So my advice is to get in writing very quickly a separation agreement with H about visitation. He has to stick to it, and so do you. I would like to see no contact with OW in it,but then I am a dreamer,,, see what you can do.