Hey, HB -

WOW! What a wonderful evening/morning it turned out to be for you. I'm glad you had a nice time. I know you were struggling with the whole ML issue. Just remember not to push things too fast, okay? I don't want you to end up where I am! Enjoy your evening for what it was, AND don't build any expectations on it either. If you don't build expectations, it won't be so emotional if something happens to either build on those expectations or take away from them. It's that emotional roller coaster we all struggle with....

You are an inspiration to me... I am so proud of you and all that you have done to bring your M closer and closer to coming back together. Congratulations on all of your hard work.

I am having a really hard time right now - have started the DB process in a major way and am happy about that but have a severely broken heart at the same time... Have been in and out of tears all day. Maybe you could jump over to my thread and give me some advice for how you made it through these hard times?

Congratulations again, and remember to keep it at baby steps, okay? He needs to go through the healing process himself of getting over OW, so remember not to do things that will push him back towards her and/or make her more attractive to him. Be flirtatious, but distant. Make him wonder... Be mysterious.

Thanks again for sharing your story with us all. It has helped me so much and given me courage to keep fighting this fight... Keep up your hard work! \:\)