Penny - seems to me you have to take a lot of responsibility for most of the work in your business and marriage - and that just doesn't seem fair.
I guess I don't have a full picture of your whole story, but what is your Hs role in the business? In the family? Why do you have to do everything? Why can't he be contacted on an emergency matter? Where does he get off treating you like this?
I think we need to start doing the same sort of boundary work with you that 2940 has been doing? Yes?
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.