DR says A lasts 6 months. True???

[still hoping]

I think it's safe to say, judging from most of the posts here, that As do not have a life span of only 6 months. I wonder if this only applies to As that have not been discovered by the S.

Like you Ophelia, my H's A started up again after we had separated - so does that still count as an A since we are still married, or is it a new relationship???

So many unknowns in my sitch - whether or not it's the same OW, and if it is, has he told her about me and our boys? And whether or not A even EXISTS?! I could just be making it all up, but I don't think so.