Well I suck at this DB'ing stuff. I was at my neighbors house with the girls for most of the evening and after I got the call from my wife, I thought of having her turn around and meeting me at her parents so we can hash things out...well a long story short I did not have her turn around and meet me at her parents..but since I did call the in-laws my FIL called and yelled at his daughter. I actually do not think that it hurt anything but I do not think that helped. I should have went with my gut and did nothing. Well hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.