Well I just heard from my wife a little while ago and she is still on her way to go get the puppy. I have no clue as to why, I normally would be for it but think that it will cause more frustration then anything.
Well the reason that I am posting again is that my wife asked me tonight if we were through and I of course told her NO. I told her that I respected how she felt and gave my reasons as to why I thought that we are not done. I then turned the question around on her...maybe this was a mistake since I new her answer.. But she obviously said that she thought that we were through and that our girls is the only thing that we have in common. She also said that last week while I was gone she was at peace being by herself which just in her mind validates her leaving. I don't think she realizes that she will not be able to come and go like she is currently doing with our kids. She will have no free time if we got divorced. Life is not that easy..... She has me to fall back on and if we got divorced I am nolonger around to be her crutch. I know that she cannot think clearly but I am afraid that she is going to cause a lot of damage before she can think clearly.
Should I call her and have her turn around so we can talk this out tonight or should I just let the puppy happen and try to keep on DB'ing?
