BND

I agree that she does not want to commit and is using the dating thing as a way to soften the blow in case she can't commit down the line she does not want the guilt of hurting me again.

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The fact that she is being honest about her feelings is something you need to give her credit for as much as it may hurt

Yes I agree, the one thing we are able to do now is discuss our feelings something which we were never able to do before

Thanks for checking in, I appreciate your input.