I think the fact that her Match.com profile is still down is a good thing. And I would not recommend putting yours back up. (While I totally understand where you are coming from and why you want to, but if you really want to make things work with her you need to not play "that game".)
I did decide to leave it down. I was only going to do it to show her I can date as well, plaing the game so to speak. I will be her safe spot to land, when she decides come commit 100%. I took some time to reflect today on all the positives that are happening and it is amazing how we can get blinded by what actually is going on. One month ago I could not hold a conversation with her, today I am dating her twice a week and spending addtional time with my D and her. She is very communicative, we can discuss our D and acknowledge where we both have grown up, we can discuss our love languages in detail and we sit there cuddle and make out which is something we haven't done in 10years! Deep down I believe even if see dates, nobody can fill her emotional needs like me. I have the edge on anybody she meets, they are starting from scratch, I have a 3 year crash course in knowing how I screwed up and what see needs in a R.
