Is my XH checking in on me? And is this a good sign? Recently I have noticed my XH logging on and off of a messanger service on the internet. (I used to be logged on all the time. Now I am on, but I have my status as invisible.) He logs on and off. The only time he has done this before is when he was checking to see if someone was on that he wanted to talk to. (Now my confession I know his password to the messanger and I have checked recently and there are now new screennames on the account. BAD R2 BAD R2. But his behavior peaked my interest.)

So my question is, is it a "good"/positive sign that he is checking in on me?

Plus I have passed him driving twice in the past couple of days. At times where I am not normally driving that road. I could see how in his mind he might think I am leaving another man's home, or coming back from a date. Maybe I have peaked his interest?

Maybe it is nothing. Just those odd behaviors that I have noticed. I guess when you are in this situation every little change in behavior makes me stop and wonder.

Any feedback?
THanks!
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