Appearantly the cancer is suspected to be caused by aespestos. The name of that cancer of the lungs is called aespestosis, and it is a slow growing cancer. My own Dad has it. And it is true. He has had it for almost 20 years, with no treatment or effects on his life. So this is good news. I got this news by telling calling my sister in law. She gave me the update. I have not heard from TJ. That is OK. If this is so, I am so relieved, and my/our prayers have been answered. If this cancer would take my FIL it would be an injustice. If this injustice was the catalyst for TJ awakening, the price would have been too high. I would always have felt some guilt. So this is such good news. Let TJ continue on in his MLC and fantasy land. That price was too dear to pay. Thank you for all your support and prayers. I hope this news is accurate. I believe it is. Look how quickly God responded to your help for me. I am grateful to all of you. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
H has not spoken to his parents in almost two years because they want nothing to do with him due to the A.
They do talk to us though.
If something were to happen to one of them, I cannot even imagine how H would react.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Steeler, Thank you for your prayers for FIL. I see the difference it has made.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
H is coming soon and is taking S16 out to the mall.
Boo hoo!!!!!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
He is coming home. And he knows it. He is not going to come home to have to leave again. That is all.
The longer he takes to come home, the better chance that it is for real, for good.
Let him take his time. You have both earned it.
Enjoy the courtship what is coming your way.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
He is coming home. And he knows it. He is not going to come home to have to leave again. That is all.
The longer he takes to come home, the better chance that it is for real, for good.
Let him take his time. You have both earned it.
Enjoy the courtship what is coming your way.
Thanks, dear for your enthusiasm and positive words. I am so cautious and trying not to get caught up into too much thinking about it.
I am going to fast and pray next week and not only will I be praying for my sitch but for everyone here, and that means you, too!!!
Hugs!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I have been reading Charlyne Cares today and she has spoke of fasting and praying for all prodigals. I have thought so much about this today. My S17 will be gone this week to visit his gf. I will be fasting and praying for us all, too.
For some reason just the thought that you would do that for us, brought tears to my eyes. I want to thank you in advance for your prayers. I know first hand the effect that having many people praying for a person can have. My S31 has most of the students and employees from my school praying for his recovery as well as many of you and my MIL told me today that she has many friends where they live praying for him, too. His tumor markers have gone from 60,000 to 50. He has to have two more rounds of chemo but I am convinced that the Lord will answer our prayers and this will be the treatment that rids my son from the cancer in his body.
I love you all for your prayers and support for both my son and my M.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
I will post some "prodigal" prayers tonight after H leaves. I will start a new thread titled something like, "prayers for prodigal."
And yes, I saw that Charlyne newsletter and it just dawned on me how close to Easter we are.
I posted on my thread a little while ago. H is staying for dinner tonight!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
