Keep it up sweetie. He is going to keep hurting you if he knows that you are sitting around waiting on him. Keep pushing forward. You are doing good. He is going to continue to come and go because he knows that you will be there. Show him that you aren't going to be there. I am sure that you are like me and have been his support for so long. He could, and can, count on you for anything. That needs to stop. Let him try to function on his own without you being there to pick him up each time he falls down.
This is a hard thing for me to do as well but I need to push forward with this D. I can't be hurt over and over again. I need to have a man that loves me and only me. A man that can look at me and I will know that I am the center of his universe. Not a wishy washy man that can't make up his mind.
If you need to move on with your life and not wait around on him, you have support of alot of people.
Take care, Jen
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
