Originally Posted By: ANewMe
BND,

Did you go through a time when H wouldn't acknowledge email you sent regarding children? I know your children are younger than mine and H talks to our children but it bothers me that I send email regarding events about the children and he doesn't even acknowledge that he received them.


I ahve gone thru this!!

Back in '05, I would call H and tell him about the kids concerts and wanted him to let me know if he would like to attend, that sort of thing. He never came and was with OW in his office each time.

I was in tears while sitting there watching my kids.

Up to this day, H has not attended a concert of theirs. It's a shame and part of the reason is, the kids attend private school and the concerts are held in the church!! Not to be mistaken with a church service but in his mind, once he steps foot in a church, he will break down because he knows what he is doing is wrong but cannot stop it.

I would say to not expect much out of the MLCer when it comes to the kids unless they are in the hospital bleeding to death. Isn't that awful?


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19