My C says to continue doing like I have been but stop smothering her. I am not sure what I am doing that would make her feel that way, but her says to ask her and find out.
From a readers POV you are smothering by asking her every 2 minutes to spend time with you. You are D, this woman thought you were history. You have to let her do the pursuing.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15