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My C says to continue doing like I have been but stop smothering her. I am not sure what I am doing that would make her feel that way, but her says to ask her and find out.


From a readers POV you are smothering by asking her every 2 minutes to spend time with you. You are D, this woman thought you were history. You have to let her do the pursuing.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15