Why in the heck would you even have a profile at match.com if you want your wife back?
My profile has been down for 4 months since I started that other relationship which has ended now since I am dating my wife. I guess after 3.5 years of being pushed aside, I feel as if my ex wants to keep me on the back burner while she explores other options. Just frustration on my part. I have no desire to date anybody else, I just don't know if I can sit back and feel like a doormat any more.
