As always, thank you for all of your help and encouragement, guys.
I am headed off to eat but just wanted to write really quick about two things:
1.) I scheduled an appt with Jody (DB coach) for tomorrow morning before I leave for the airport to go home. I plan on fine-tuning my bounaries tonight and coming up with some more questions for her tomorrow so that I am prepared for my "homecoming..."
2.) I fell asleep last night before deciding what to do about H's e-mails, so today I ended up just calling him and leaving him a message with the info he was needing. BUT, I purposely did NOT call him. I went into my voicemail and just recorded a message and then forwarded it to his phone.
3.) He called me back twice to follow up, and I let it go to voicemail both times and just, again, used that same system of recording a message and sending it to him.
4.) In his message(s) back to me, he was VERY cold sounding... I really tried had in my messages to him to be upbeat yet distant. I don't know if I was TOO distant and it made him mad... I'm probably just being sensitive. It just made me realize that ANY sort of verbal interaction that I have with him right now really sets me back; thus, the need I believe to distance myself more and move my files back home and work from there.
If you have time, let me know what you guys think about the boundaries that I posted so far, okay?
Gotta run (hope the Italian psycho man has not been following me!!!! LOL )
