Act as if those words don't bother you. Even though they may kill you inside, don't let her see that.
Don't have too much advice to give. I am here if you need anything.
Jen
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
