Actually BI, that was some very good advice. You're absolutely right that H is a big boy and is completely capable of figuring things out on his own...I guess that seeing him not WANT to figure them out makes me feel powerless and brings on the desire to control the sitch as best I can. But the point is and always has been that his issues are all his. And I need to let go and let him be his own person. WISH THAT WERE EASY! But I'm getting there. :P
