Thanks everybody. I feel better already. I'll go home and have a great time putting my kids to bed, smiling the whole time. Then I'm off to see Rhonda Vincent and her band play tonight, with my brother not my wife. So that should be nice.

I'm still not givin' up. The plan is to have her move out, let the affair with the boyfriend from 4th grade run its course, and then see what happens next. Meanwhile I keep working on myself and GALing. Her filing was all about her getting a parenting plan signed by a judge. She needed that so that I would not accuse her of abandonment or kidnapping---because of course I am the angry one. Right.

I've been pretty one-sided on the boards, getting help but not giving much. I'll try to stop by each of your threads to offer a few words of support or encouragement.

-SH


"Now some kind of man, he can't do anything wrong. If I see him I'll tell him you're waiting." ---Lowell George