Is it just me or are there a lot of people in piecing that actually have a spouse that is either still cheating on them or are hung up on the person they were cheating with?
I honestly believe that being the understanding spouse (especially understanding wife) is the surest way to drag the affair out for a couple years. It must be a real rush to have a couple women that want you and especially a rush to have your wife so desperate for you that she'll either ignore the affair or better yet, see it as her fault. I think that these cheating husbands should be kicked to the curb. A) they'll come back faster and more desperate (because suddenly the woman is a challenge) and b) you'll save a little of your self-respect.
I really struggle with the notion of piecing when your spouse is still cheating. Only two can piece....not three. Oh well, to each his own. That's just my gripe.
