I sent my exW a cute package with a balloon and card inviing her to a nite out in a couple of weeks.
She called and thanked me for such a wonderful surprise. I asked if that ment she was accepting the invite, she said yes but what she needs to tell me might make me change my mind
She tells me that I am not on the same page as her, she wants to date other people and that includes seeing me. She feels pressure that she can not give me what I need in an exclusive relationship. She knows how wonderful I am and knows she might be making a big mistake but she just has to be sure she is doing the right thing. I told her she needs to do what makes her comfortable and if I agree to dating her in this manner I don't know how I will feel if she does want to work on things.
What do I do???
My C says to continue doing like I have been but stop smothering her. I am not sure what I am doing that would make her feel that way, but her says to ask her and find out. He also feels she may not date and this is her way of releasing pressure.
My gut says to date her because I truly feel she will not find anybody better, but then there is part of me that feels like I being used.