I don't have any advice for you on that one b/c I haven't been there. I always used to say "you cheat, you're gone," but sure didn't kick H out when he finally 'fessed up 2 1/2 yrs ago! You don't know how you would handle a certain sitch until it happens to you!!! I have learned that the hard way!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10