For some MLCers they try to keep the OW around as a second option.

I personally don't sense that in this case...but it could be.

MLCers have a Knight in Shining Armour Complex, and OW's are commonly distressed.

SA4...you've been at this so very long with so much cycling...it has seemed through most of the years. What do you think?

Is the OW someone who is needy and broken...the prime sort that a fixer wants to help?

Could be either. Just stay strong...and I know you will.

HUGS,
RCR