CeMar Good grief, what the heck is wrong with wanting oral sex? Nothing wrong with wanting or actually giving/getting OS. You said the female had to ~swallow for you to feel desired. A SO can desire you to almost the nth degree and still not like swallowing.
Well, CeMar, some people don't like to swallow, don't like the taste, or don't like something else related to swallowing.
I wouldn't tell Lil's bf or any other associated male with a female partner he had to F her, cum, and then lick her out.
I personally LOVE to give oral sex, so it is very hard to understand someone that would have HANGUPS about it. Good for you but not everyone sees it the same way.
A women that does not like to give her man BJ's is making a BIG negative statement about her value of the relationship. Maybe so. Maybe the R and OS are two different subjects to the couple.
Sex is all about the INTIMACY of the moment, it is about TRUST. Straight sex is easy because the intimacy levels are LOW. Intimacy levels are LOW, maybe. Sexual band with low, could be. Experience level low, yup I heard of that. Personal boundaries/choices, heard of that many times. Any number of things influences OS preferences.
So what do I do with a male friend that won't eat pizza if someone touches it while serving it to him? It's my opinion this person is OCD'ing but that is the way he is. This same person wipes butt for a 90 something relative when they have an accident. How do you explain that difference?
I have seen porn where a guy has anal sex with a gal then she gives him a BJ. Not in a thousand years would I be interested in something like that. It's something I see as unsanitary.
Now go grab me a pickle, wipe your fingers on your shirt tail first, OK?
