Of course, annette, lillie probably doesn't realize that you can't show a neutered male.
Anything changed with me? Oh, things are changing, just not necessarily with the SSM part of the equation. More info on my threads. Biggest deal was the 180 I did when MsHdog and I had an argument and she threatened divorce. Instead of me placating, I said, 'let's do it.' She backed off, and we've been working on the communicating aspect since then. I need to see some effort on the physical part, though.
