Don't want to disallusion you but my Hs current affair has been going on 15 months. He met her one month after we split but had been having other As before that (although I didn't know it immediately). There is still no sign of it ending. In fact he had moved in with her within about 2 weeks of meeting her. He bought a flat of his own last April and moved her in with him as she only rented a room. I understand they got engaged at this time as well. I found this out on my wedding anniversary in July. She is 26, he is 42 and she is a foreign national. Until this week she has not worked for a year! Oh and one little other bit of info; we have not even started D proceedings yet.

Please do not sit around waiting for your Hs affair to end. GAL for your own sake. I'm not saying date (I'm not) but do things for you and not to please your H in the hope he will come back.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15