I know how important it is to share past experiences. This has been a challenging road for me, and if not for my faith, I would have been divorced and gone a long time ago. I still can't guarantee that it won't end this way, but at least I have peace that I tried my hardest, gave it my all and tried to do the right thing. I've lost patience with my husbands poor behavior and life choices. I think he is still lost and still has a long way to go. He needs to grow up, and I don;t think some of these MLC'ers are capable of that. I do think they regret their actions, but are still unwilling to make right what they did wrong.
I just found out that H is still talking to OW......as friends!! Needless to say, I expressed my unhappiness with him and told him it was totally unacceptable. She is married and "still misses" him according to him, and he told me he was helping her through "yet" another crisis. He wouldn't tell me and I told him I didn't really want to know. So, you see, it still is not over......
I'm doing great, yes, getting a life is key. I am so busy with my own life, new job, new head coaching position, new house, that I can't worry about his latest drama....
