SH, My H's A is a little over 5 months. I have beeen "trying" to DB for about two months and things have gotten a lot better in the past month. Unfortunately, H is still seeing OW although he is still living at home.
You just keep doing what seems to be working and stop doing what pushes H further away. Gosh! If I could only take my own advice.
I also agree that it is hard for friends to understand. Mine all think I'm crazy and that I should just leave my H. So, I have stopped talking to them about the A. Take care of yourself. Good for you for getting a job and GAL!
