Running is right. I'd avoid a lot of talk right now - particularly relationship talk. For you, it will all be about action. It's time to really take your life back, start leading and become stronger in the R. Keep up the working out and go out and update the wardrobe are action steps - this stuff had positive effects for me in my sitch.
There are several guys in piecing that have worked to figure this out so I highly suggest reading some of their threads - there are lots of golden nuggets in there....and keep posting. Read up on threads by Grasshopper, Frank_D, COG just to name a few. Each of us learned that being a man means a lot more than being a subservient wuss - and I don't say that to offend anybody. I just know for my situation, being that wuss and trying to incite passion from my wife was like trying to light a match under water....
Keep posting...we'll help you along...
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
