Did he not listen when I said I wanted a real date?
I'll try again tonight. Matilda [/quote]
Matilda, Your situation makes me think of the chapter in DR where MWD asks us to think of what we want in a R, and to then ask for it. It's clear you want to have a date with your H that is private and free of distractions. It sounds like you've made it clear to him that this is what you want.
Why do you think it's not happening? What is his level of motivation in fulfilling this expectation for you?
It seems like you're pursuing him to fulfill an expectation that you're asking him to meet. It also sounds like your pursuit is not working.
DR asks us to experiment and monitor results. Is it time to take a step back and reevaluate your strategy? Is the expectation of an exclusive date not realistic at this time?
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
