Good grief, what the heck is wrong with wanting oral sex? Oral sex is BASIC sex to me. you make it sound like an extreme request. What I want is something that a WHOLE lot of women on here LIKE to do. I personally LOVE to give oral sex, so it is very hard to understand someone that would have HANGUPS about it. I love BJ's. There is an incredibly strong EMOTIONAL element in BJ's, BJ's take the relationship to different and HIHGER level. Sex is not about the orgasam, that is just a wonderful side benefit. Sex is all about the INTIMACY of the moment, it is about TRUST. Straight sex is easy because the intimacy levels are LOW. Go on to oral sex or other type sex and the comfort zone of the LD is starting to be pushed. A women that does not like to give her man BJ's is making a BIG negative statement about her value of the relationship.
