update havent talked with STBXW for over 8 days, she did send me a email asking why I dont call her and sent me a birthday message by email yesterday. The D could be final in about 3 weeks, but my lawyer asked my W for some information 10 days ago but she hasnt gotten him the information yet. I dont know if she is starting to delay or what, should I call her and ask what up with getting the L the information or should I just let her delay if thats what she is doing. Like I said I havent talk with her on the phone but she does still email me every day. I have made my self some goals and have started working on the goals I made. I have been going to the gym every night and have lost 35lbs in three months and it sure does feel great and makes me happy.
