What Cemar and Choc fail to realize is that they are the ones with the problem. Their wives merely have what they want.
Let me see if I understand this. My wife has everything that she wants in a relationship, mainly someone to just be there. Since I am the one that wants FAR more from the relationship, it is I who have the problem to address. So I should force the issue, to work with the wife to solve the issue, and if we can not work togeter on this issue, then I (the one with the problem), should take the risk and divorce her and find someone that DOES want a more physical life. I think this is the way Scnarch recommends. Did I get it or am I way off base?
